A letter to Sophia

Rahadian Permana
2 min readSep 9, 2024

Hi, Sophia.

As I write this, I am thinking of you with all my heart. I hope that wherever life has taken you, you are surrounded by love and happiness. I wish for you to find joy in every day and to grow into the incredible woman I always knew you would become. You have always been the light of my life, and my greatest wish is for you to carry that light forward.

Do you remember the times we spent together when you were younger? The way your laughter filled the room and your curiosity made every moment an adventure? Those memories are treasures I hold close. Even though time has passed, and life has moved us in different directions, my love for you remains constant.

Sophia, I want you to know something very important: life is full of decisions, both big and small. When you face tough choices, take your time. Don’t rush. Listen to your heart and trust your instincts. I believe in you completely and know that you will always make the best decisions for yourself.

Sometimes, life will present challenges that seem overwhelming. In those moments, remember that every difficulty is an opportunity for growth. Every struggle you overcome will reveal a stronger, more resilient version of yourself. Embrace these challenges with courage, knowing that they are shaping you into the person you are meant to be.

When it comes to love, I hope you find someone who truly deserves you. Love is a beautiful gift, but it’s also something that requires care and respect. Choose someone who supports you, cherishes you, and treats you with the kindness you so easily give to others. And remember, you have a kind heart that knows how to love well. Use that gift wisely.

Please don’t let anger or resentment take root in your heart. Life can be difficult, and sometimes misunderstandings happen. Even when things are tough, try to find understanding and compassion. Your life is your own to shape, and I hope you fill it with peace and joy. I regret that I couldn’t always be the father you needed me to be. I never had the chance to be the best father, and I am sorry for that. Please know that my love for you was always there, even if I struggled to express it.

Sophia, as my journey comes to a close, yours is just beginning. Continue to move forward with hope and determination. Remember that my love for you is eternal and will always be with you, guiding you through life’s ups and downs. Carry forward with the strength and grace I know you possess, and know that I am with you in spirit.

Live fully, love deeply, and find joy in every moment. You are my greatest gift, and my love for you will never fade. I am proud of you, and I always will be.

Love, Papa Aden

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Rahadian Permana
Rahadian Permana

Written by Rahadian Permana

Software Engineer And History Enthusiast

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